I met the Oester family when I was in grade school. Friends with Dale and Debbie, and I really liked Bruce and Ruth. I last saw Bruce and Ruth at a reunion at my sister and brother-in-law's (Bruces' nephew) place. Ruth had to be on oxygen at that time, and the love they shared was obvious.
I've just recently lost a cousin who I've always admired and looked up to. He was a hero to me. I live in Alaska, so I didn't get to see him very often, but he played a large part in my growing up. This is the way I feel about Bruce.
One memory was back in 1969 when I was parked in Scappoose along Hwy 30. I was sitting in my car late one night with the dome light on and my head resting on the steering wheel as I adjusted radio stations. I didn't realize what this looked like. Deputy Bruce was passing through and stopped to see if I was alright. He politely let me know that I shouldn't do that. Bruce was a very good man.