Sharon Martein's Obituary
Sharon L. Martien passed away on February 18, 2026, from complications related to cancer treatment. She left this world gently, held in the loving arms of her daughter, Ariel O’Neill. Though she was not ready to go, and those who loved her were not ready to let her go, her love continues—woven into the hearts, memories, and lives of those who knew her.
Born in Portland, Oregon, on October 5, 1946, to Kathryn and Floyd Harmon, Sharon grew up surrounded by family and friends. From an early age, Sharon’s strong personality shone through, and she often found a way to be in charge among younger siblings and cousins. Sharon was her family’s go to caregiver. She had a way of keeping loved ones under her watchful eye.
As a child, she grew up surrounded by aunts, uncles, and many cousins. Many hours were spent playing cards, board games or simply visiting and chatting with family and friends. Sharon loved playing games. Much family time was spent gathered around the table playing one game or another. She could be ruthless, but the playful smack talk was just that, loving and playful.
Sharon graduated from Franklin High School in 1964 and went on to build a life defined by resilience, independence, and care for others. She married Ron Martien and though their marriage later ended, they shared many adventures and laughter including the birth of their daughter, Ariel, in 1981.
Sharon and Ariel shared a special bond. She was the perfect Mother Bear with total dedication to the wellbeing of her family. Sharon was over the moon when her grandchildren, Aurora (16) and Cade (12) were born. She showed her love with the same unwavering dedication helping wherever she was needed. She loved her role as Granny and she had a profound impact on their lives.
Family and friendships were important to Sharon. Once she loved you, she would do absolutely anything for you. She had a way of becoming mom and granny to all, despite blood relation. She gave generously of her time, her energy, and her heart, and her presence was a constant source of comfort and strength.
She believed in us beyond our own understanding and always knew, without a shadow of a doubt, that we could overcome any hard situation. She believed our family was blessed
and loved living life and simply listening to her friends and family share their thoughts with her. She was a supportive friend and a great listener. She only wanted the best for us all.
Sharon is survived by her daughter, Ariel O’Neill, son-in-law, Sean O’Neill; her cherished grandchildren, Aurora and Cade; her brother, Floyd E. Harmon (Susanne); and her nephews, Blake Carpenter, Brad Carpenter, and Benjamin Harmon. She leaves behind a family who adored her and a community that will deeply miss her steady, loving presence.
Sharon’s life was a testament to love in action. She cared deeply, gave freely, and held her family at the center of everything. She will be missed beyond words and remembered always.
A Celebration of Life will be held in June. Those wishing to attend may contact Floyd Harmon at [email protected]. In lieu of flowers, the family invites donations in Sharon’s memory to a charity of your choice. Inspired by her mother, Sharon enjoyed supporting many charities, and school functions. Throughout her life, Sharon supported Scappoose Schools, Alzheimer’s organizations, and hospice care—causes that reflect her lifelong compassion and commitment to others.
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